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“Bully” film review – Gary Chew  

Another polemic documentary film is here.  It’s called “Bully.”  You can see it at the Tower Theater, Land Park Drive and Broadway, Sacramento.  

Why would “Bully” not bring a feud with it?

The opposing parties are those incensed by suicides of youngsters bullied into taking their lives, and another incensed faction that believes some victims being   followed in the documentary are targets of harassment due to being gay.  The latter group’s conclusion is that director Lee Hirsch’s blunt but not excessive film promotes a homosexual life style.  

To think that it’s more important that people should not hear about homosexuality than knowing there are persons who can be bullied into killing themselves, seems absurd to me. But this is about the film, not what people on the latter side of this issue see as Truth.

“Bully” isn’t only about gay, young people, it’s about kids in public school who are ridiculed for being different.  A different looking face, different skin color,  a mental disorder, lack of sociability, obesity or a diminutive size are traits that often trigger bullies.  

The movie says that bullying is quite problematic.  Who can stop it?  Teachers, administrators, parents, police, the clergy?  The answer to that is almost as contentious as bullying, itself.

If one is bullied in a public education environment and his or her parents can’t afford to send their child to private school to avoid peer harassment, options for a positive resolution shrink.

Bullying is not new. However, a spate of teens bullied to suicide (as media have reported in recent years) has caused many, especially parents of the deceased, to coalesce in an effort to stop the abuse.

Public school students in Georgia, Iowa, Mississippi, Oklahoma and Texas are followed in their daily routine during the 2009-2010 school year…in class, on the playground, on the school bus and in the street.

Some of the street and bus talk includes coarse language familiar to almost anyone, and just as common as bullying.  Due to a few F-bombs, the filmmaker and releasing firm (The Weinstein Company) received notice, early on, that the documentary would be rated R by the MPAA.

Director Hirsch felt the film couldn’t reach younger audiences with an R. 

“Bully” has since been rated PG-13 after Hirsch and the Weinstein group agreed to bleep some offensive language.   A few subtitles used to clarify fuzzily recorded dialogue do, however, spell out words that might be found offensive.

The picture’s most moving moments come when the parents profess their love for the children they’ve lost, and how much they’re missed. 

Tyler Long (who went to the Murray County, Georgia School System) and Ty Smalley (a student in Perkins, Oklahoma Public Schools) were both victims of bullying.  The boys killed themselves after enough…got to be more than enough.  Tyler was 17.  Ty, only11.  The film focuses on their families, with vintage clips  showing the boys in daily living.

Most attention is paid to Alex Libby, a public school student of Sioux City, Iowa.  Fortunately, Alex didn’t take his life but since he’s known as Fishface at school, it’s easy to imagine the ridicule that’s been a part of his life. Hirsch gives us some of it.

“Bully” doesn’t have much of an arc.  The video casts a silent eye mostly on the families….with brief conversations among the kids, their parents and between parents and school administrators as well as board members.

Near the finish, it’s clear the film is first meant for young people themselves, not necessarily concerned adults.  According to the movie, when some one is about to be bullied, pressure from larger numbers of non aggressive, witnessing students that persuades the perpetrators to cut the cruelty is the most expeditious way to undermine it.    

The finale shows a rally held in October 2010 on the Oklahoma State Capital grounds in Oklahoma City.  The event’s intent was to recruit support for the “Stand For the Silent” organization now involved with sharpening public awareness   against bullying.  Ty Smalley’s dad, Kirk, speaks to the crowd about his son and the importance of standing up for those who suffer such treatment. 

Focus on the Family, a Christian organization that also opposes the PG-13 rating, says the film encroaches on its members’ freedom of religion.  The faction believes that being part of the LGBT community is a sin and that Focus on the Family’s faith demands that children must be sheltered from, what it claims is, the sinful nature of homosexuality.

Kelby, an Oklahoma teen and uncloseted lesbian flashes a winning personality in the film.  She and Alex, who is not gay, show more than enough charisma for doing feature films, not just one about their being bullied.  

On another cultural note, each Canadian provincial government rates films for its residents, not Ottawa.  All Canadian Provinces initially gave “Bully” a PG rating.

Hail Canada.

On first reading that, I wondered if there is a significant difference between the bullying-caused teen suicide rate for our friends north of us and we who live just south of their border.

Copyright © 2012 by Gary Chew.  All rights reserved. 

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