Dear Steve, Though we have never met, Azlina and I were friends, in primary and secondary school. After we left, we managed to keep in touch through college and uni years. Then we had our families, and until facebook came into our lives, we reconnected. I feel your pain, as I also lost my husband, recently. I wish you strength and preserverence, and it shall work out somehow. She will always live in you and your children. My thoughts and prayers for you, Azrai and Aby. Al-fatihah, Aybee and Ash. Zalina Kamal-Stephens.