Over this past Mother's Day, I could only feel the sadness in my heart, as a mother myself, for my dear friend Ali Rumsey. I know that Blaire and her mother will be reunited, but this is a terrible injustice! The 30 day court order has expired and the court has NOT ordered visitation, and the court proceedings have been extended now until mid June. How can this happen to a woman who has devoted her loving self (unselfishly) to the child who she brought into this world out of love? At that time it was love that brought beautiful Blaire into this world. As many married couples divorce throughout this world life goes on. Despite the rollercoaster of divorce, the love for Blaire was never in question and remained a constant in Ali's life 100% everyday. How could a father do this knowingly and tear his daughter from her mother? How could a father who only wants the best for his child think that this is the right way to address his void? How could a father think that this is the right thing to do for his daughter’s emotional and physical well being? How could a father who knows the bond that his daughter has with her mother tear her out of her world as she knew it without explanation? How could a father sleep at night? I ask myself these questions everyday, and there is NO answer. My dear Ali is heartbroken from her daily void which is Blaire. This was a constant in her life. How would you feel if someone stole the only thing precious to you and then ordered you NO visitation for 30 days? Ali followed the court directive knowing that there is a light at the end of the tunnel shinning brightly (Blaire). Then after the 30 days were up and the order exhausted that there was no hope until mid June now due to the court system and the legal team exhausting all parental rights. We need everyone to come together.... Every family member, friend, and visitor who frequents this site for updates... We need you to post your story! We need for you to share Blaire's story! Blaire is in my daily thoughts, and I do not understand how human interaction with her family and friends can be so viciously cut off and expect this young loving child to continue life as she knows it. Blaire girl... just understand that we love you and we are all working towards reunification! We love and miss your daily smile! Since I was NOT given an address nor phone number to correspond, and I've been advised that phone calls are not allowed…. Just know that we love you and hope to see you soon! Love Stephers

Christian68 I am NOT saying that the father should NOT have a role in his daughters life. I am saying that what the court did by taking away parential rights for 30 days unwarranted is unconstiutionable. I know that Blaire needs her father and her mother in her life. The circumstances around this case are unwarranted for the punishment that Blaire will have to endure over the next few weeks. Because of the way the court removed all contact from the mother who loves this kid to death.... What do you think the chiild feels in this predicament? Who is to say that she isn't feeling abandoment on by her mother because she cannot speak with ANY of the family who have been involved in her life unconditionally? Blaire is the one who needs both parents to work together. By removing Blaire from a mother who has physical custody 8.5 years and to place with the father who has abandonded his daughter for 2 years??? Where is the justice in that? I am sure the father is hot on getting the court to remove his child support as this is a priority to him vs.working towards a visition plan that works for both parents for the best of Blaire.

Christian 68 You have this one wrong. You obviously only know the father in this case personally. I love how you turn this into an estranged "LOVE" interest. I about laughed my ass off. Ali has NEVER said anything about wanting her EX back. Nor has she EVER said anything negative about Blaire's father. She has ONLY wanted nothing else than for her EX to be a loving father to her daughter since day one. So after the first Divorce there was a son, Ali married knowing that there was going to be a blended family in her future... Then Blair girl came along into their family. Unfortunatly their marriage did not work and they both parted in a divorce..... So then the ex remairried and now he has a new family of three? Five children in total? Isn't it a coiencidence that the "Ex" went on to claim financial hardship after the divorce and then used his three additional chldren as a financial hardship without trying to workout some type of arrangement in stone with Ali regarding Blaire's continued parenting? You need to re-read the truths above as written by Sharon Wall who has been involved and knows the situation. You are not involved in Blaire's past two years of life, so who are you to say this is the right thing for this innocent girl. You do not have a clear picture on what is BEST for the child.