I have been dealing with this myself. I work in the tech field, and hate what text messaging and facebook has brought. My wife guards her phone like Fort Knox. It goes to bed with her, bathroom when she showers. I caught her last summer texting an ld boyfirend from highschool, I threatened to leave and she apologized and then i caught her again. Now on XMAS day I see that she had been texting a guy she works with and used to go to grade school with. I wrote her an email and enclosed this link. I am so hurt!