Just the other day I read the restraing orders that where filed against him . And is so scary . Everything that he did to me he has done to this other women and children he has been involved ..Did I even say that he tried to commiment suicide. And we have a judge giving him viistation and unmonitored .. I am so scared of him still but if I show him I am scared we will harm us . I really don"t know what to do for my daughter she has experience he angry and his harrassement .

I really dont't understand any of this . I was with this man for 11yrs and I got pregant and he convinced me to have a abortation stating that we where not ready and could not give the child a good life . I was devasted and he stated he will stay with me . He did'n't the day after I abort the baby he was with other girl . I really loved this guy. So we where not together for about a 1 yr and then that other girl broke up with him . He wanted to come back so I went back with him and I was with him for 11yrs. And we broke up and then I became pregant with our daughter when he found out I was pregant he got married to some other lady . He thought that by doing that I would give up this child . But I didn't I said to myselft I will do my best to give this child a good life and work had to give her what she needs . I love my daughter we are best friend . So when I was ready to have my daughter he came and said he was divorcing this other lady. I said I don"t have time for you . One day he was over at my house and he visiting his daughter and he beat me up in front of my daughter I was scared to death . I called my sister who called the police and then advised him to leave my house . He threaten to kill me . My family new I would keep letting him back in my life so they came and got me from nothern California and so I moved back to souther California. My daughter is 14yrs old. I always gave her father our address and phone number where we where he never talked to her sent her anything or visited her . I never bothered him with the child support or even medical insurance I have left him alone . Since the time I left he has been married four times and he has four restraining orders against him from the ladies he was with and also he tried to commit suicide . Now he has come back and wants custody of her . And he is married again to some lady that he meet on the internet that does not have custody of her own kids. So my daughter says let me get to know my dad I said okay . But she has decided she does not want to have a relationship with him . He is very abusive physically and verbal. He has taken her up in the mountains driven close to the cliff she scared her . Has taken her to the police dept so they can do a body search on her because she was not suppose to have her cell phone on her . And the last one he did was pull her out of the car by her ankles . My daughter has had 2 surgeries on her knee because she tore her acl and her meniscus . And now that he pulled out of the vehicle they believe that the meniscus is tore again from him pulling on her . And for his wife who does not know me called me the B----ch in front of my daughter and he the father sat there laughing thinking it funny . And they have said that PAS my daughter . And so they have given him custody . I don't understand this court system . My daughter also had a child attorney who never defended her and my daughter wrote her letter telling her on scared she is . And now all this years he told me I am not a good mother . My daughter is the best . she excellent in sports and she is excellent . She had got a schlorship to State University of Frenso .. was a contest she won . Only 96 girls nationwide where selected . And she has grade point 4.0 and she is going to do her 2 yr college while doing school looks like I did something good.