Ronda, I work with Kate. You have nothing to apologize for! You are pointing out what you have heard and read. It is unfortunate that it is true in our scoiety that our 'heros' say the things you stated above. I've heard them and been with them when they have. Please understand, that for the most part it is just the way they 'vent' out their stress. Their is no excuse to treat someone as less than a human tho.