All I know is I work with kids and I come from a broken home where my mother abandoned me and if the court and yanked me out of my house and moved me in with her for 30 days I probably would have ended up hating her even more for doing it me so if this man truely wanted to be any type of father to Blair at all he would march his ass down to the court house and tell them no he is taking he home and on wednesdays he'll be picking her from school to take her to lunch and help with home work or to the park and maybe in month or so she'll wanna stay the night and like I said build on it. But as for this He in no way is any type of man. Alright I'm going to bed now that im all worked up!!!!

I think a lot of you are missing the point the point here! The mom never said hey I dont want you to come see your kid the ex husband was so busy with his new wife and their three kids he just couldnt be bothered with this one. Like lots of men out there it wasn't until he decided he didnt want to pay child support anymore that he was going to be in the picture. Now I have done my research on this so called mediator/psych woman and she is a crock she has theories out there about alienation that go as far as to give custody to parents that have sexually abused their children. Don't get me wrong there are true cases of alienation out there and it is wrong but this is more of a case of abandoment. Even if the court felt this was a case of alienation then they needed to take the child into consideration this is a man who really hasnt made much of an effort in the last two years because i mean she has a phone and she goes to public school if you really want to see her just go see her but anyway, the court should have started with him maybe picking her up after school then staying over night then gradually allowing a relationship to form but for those of you who posted that nonsense about there has to be something wrong with that mom for her to loose custody i assure you there is not!!!!! If you could only see just once the way her and Blair's faces when they see each other its amazing. They love each other, she is an amazing kid, and she WILL be home soon were she belongs.