Just this am I found an account sent via email to my husband saying he has a wink,it gave me the screen name he used and what is really sick is that he used my nickname as a password to log on to this dating site.All trust is gone, I am a homeschooling mom of 4 and I am too smart to let this man just dump me and the kids financially( which is what he did to the other ex and kids) So my plan...play stupid, take what I can , collect evidence, get a lawyer and get out with my head held high and my bank account filled! These men now a days just want their cake and eat it too. He can have his cake!! It'll will be dry and he will have NOTHING to wash it down with!