I read an article yesterday on the lessons we humans can learn from our beloved pets regarding love and forgiveness. The most striking lesson, in my opinion, is a dog's ability to live in the moment. For instance, if my beloved Prince is caught in the garbage and told to get in his crate, he will run over to the crate, take a seat, and wait for me to close the latch. Then, not less than a minute later if I say, "me beso," he will stick out his little tongue and give me a kiss. In an instant, I am forgiven for issuing a punishment for his unwanted behavior. A more extreme example is the dog owner who yells and hits his furry friend after she or he has, say...torn up an expensive Italian shoe. Before the "master" is done issuing that consequence, I am more than positive that Blue or Bella is apologetic, complete with tail curled under, and ready to be "massas" best friend again.

Are we humans the same? When we are disappointed by a loved one or friend do we forgive and forget in a moment's time? Or do we punish that person because our pride and other people say that we shouldn't let him or her get away with that type of behavior? Yes, I know that some offenses may be unforgiveable, and it is up to each individual to decide which those may be. However, for the most part, we are all human and fall short of perfection. So, maybe we should try and remember that we all make mistakes; we all act out of our own desires (much like Blue and Bella) and don't always think of the consequences of our behavior. And when that occurs, may we meet our friend or beloved with open arms and a forgiving heart.