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Hear Me Roar

by Felicia Pitre, published on April 7, 2009 at 11:34 AM

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Today, shortly after 5 PM, my son called me from his cellular phone. It was obvious to me, immediately, that he was upset. Apparently, while walking home, an older Caucasian man approached my son and accused him of harassing his younger brother. Per my son, the man was "in [his] face," and he felt threatened. My son stated that he offered this man respect by referring to him as "sir" and looking him straight in his eyes; and although it was not necessary, he also told this stranger where he was after school, which was not where the incident took place. The man then asked my son if he was lying and told him that "this kind of behavior is not tolerated around here." There was also a Caucasian woman in the parked minivan, who, according to my son, was smiling (or smirking).

My son was close to tears as he relayed the above tale to me. He was breathing heavily and talking loudly. He also spoke of all the things he would have done had the man attacked him. At some point during the altercation, he felt that this was a possibility. On the other end of the phone, I remained calmed and gathered all of the necessary information. Unfortunately, my son did not retrieve a license plate number. However, I calmed him down and told him that we would contact the police department when he arrived home.

While talking to the police, I made it clear that this incident was not only inappropriate, in that an adult approached my child in a threatening manner, but it also appeared that the incident was racially motivated. There is absolutely no other way to explain why this man would, out of nowhere, approach my son on an empty suburban street unless he was told that the "kid" who actually did attack his brother was African American. I also let them know that this was not the first incident of this kind for my child while living in this neighborhood; and I now feel unsafe for my son, a young, outspoken, intelligent, African American male. In fact, I feel unsafe, afraid, and saddened.

Of course, because we have little information, not much can be done. Yet, my main focus was to alert the police to the racial profiling that is occurring in this 'diverse' suburban town. Racial discrimination and prejudice are high on my no tolerance list; in fact, they sit at number one. I don't tolerate racism or discrimination from or by anyone. So, to have this happen to my cub, so blatantly, and potentially, violently, I am enraged. I know that we both handled the situation well, and I am quite proud of him. So proud even that I allowed him to have his Friday night pizza treat and XBOX for the evening, even though he skipped 2nd period today. (He will lose the controllers first thing tomorrow morning, and is stuck in the house all weekend.) However, this isn't the end for this lioness. The local police department and city council will definitely hear me roar.

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April 7, 2009 | 11:42 AM
What was the advice given by the police? What suggestions did they offer? Will you let your son continue to walk home? Is there a friend or classmate that he could walk home with for most or part of the way so he wasn't walking by himself?
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April 7, 2009 | 11:48 AM
The police basically stated that my son should have ran away; however, my son thinks that would have made him appear guilty. The following day, I emailed the chief of police and local councilperson. The investigation was assigned to a "beat officer," but there is not much that can be done regarding the past incident. I am grateful, however, that the incident was reported and folks are now aware of the occurrences. (My son continues to walk the neighborhood with and without friends, but he is also more aware.)
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edited on  April 7, 2009 | 1:59 PM
Felicia...you didn't state what neighborhood this incident occurred in, I am curious... was it in North Natomas...? they have quite an clan of racists up there, especially around Creekside, who are worried African Americans will hurt their property values...

Also..I have kids...so i know they do dumb things...maybe your son did something he shouldn't have... what precipitated this confrontation... it's possible it was not racially motivated at all.

The police were also right..teach your son to run...never let some stranger in that kind of situation get close enough to grab or hit you.
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April 8, 2009 | 8:27 AM
John,

This incident occurred in Elk Grove. No, my son did not do anything to precipitate this incident. If he had, I would not have insisted on calling and writing the local police department. My son is a good kid, and I trust his word.

Regarding running, I agree with my son--that would make him appear guilty; he is 14, not 7.

Nevertheless, thanks for reading and replying.
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edited on  April 8, 2009 | 9:17 AM
I can remember couple of times when I was 14 that I felt I needed to run. It is better safe than sorry, there are a lot of crazy people out there and personally I would rather have my children be safe by running and risk bruising their ego, over somehow appearing guilty.

Also no offense, but I have kids, they always put themselves in the best light..and yes even lie, so they don't appear guilty to their parents...that's just what kids do...
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April 7, 2009 | 3:10 PM
Galt,
I asked you this in another thread. I don't know if you saw it.

Do you run the Sacramento Insider blog?

http://www.thesacramentoinsider.com/
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edited on  April 7, 2009 | 3:39 PM
No, but I know who does. Why?

Are you the same Jeff McCrory who is a web Tech for AFSCME?
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April 7, 2009 | 5:07 PM
Yeah. That's me.
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April 7, 2009 | 5:13 PM
I just saw that the "gadfly" wrote for that blog, so I was wondering if that was you. You seem to pay attention to city politics and with the same POV as that blog, so I was just trying to place you.
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